Dear IMFW Community
The IMFW book study group this year read Listening to the Heart: Contemplative Journey to Engaged Buddhism, by Kittisaro and Thanissara. I have found it to be a profoundly beautiful book that is luminous in clarity and depth. It's both a memoir and guide to practice that has provoked inspiring discussion in the group and deepened my practice in many ways. This husband-and-wife team are able to cut through the jargon often used by teachers by using personal examples of their dharma life unfolding to help the reader make the unconscious conscious.
The first development of mindfulness directs us to establish mindfulness of body. The Buddha encouraged us to begin with the body when he told us: (translated) 'in this fathom long body, I make known the world. Its arising, its ceasing and the path leading to its cessation.' When we see the body as a bundle of pleasant and unpleasant sensations that help us get in touch with the body's intelligence, we begin to see the symbiotic relationship of body and mind. And as we tap into old beliefs, opinions, assumptions and expectations that are the forerunner of likes and dislikes, pain and suffering, the path of liberation from suffering slowly emerges.
Thanisarra explained, "The choices we make, and the lives we lead, are influenced by the subliminal, ancestral messaging we inherit on a cellular level. The past haunts us in ways we sometimes don’t see, passing on unresolved disturbances to future generations....Our wounds are not shameful things, but catalysts for personal and collective transformation. The wounding of the "soul” is something we all inherit and yet, with the power of wise reflection and loving awareness, we can extricate our life force from redundant and dysfunctional beliefs." Having finished reading Listening to the Heart for the first time, I feel quite certain I will return to the wisdom of their teachings time and time again. But right now, I experience peace and an open heart with the motivation to ease my own suffering and the suffering of others. And to strengthen that intention, I have been motivated to write the following aspirations:
May I meet this moment with my highest humanity
May I face what is difficult and hurting in both self and others with love
May I rise to what is beautiful and life-giving and grow alongside others.
With love and gratitude for your practice,
Tammy
tamaradyer6@gmail.com
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