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Refuge-Precepts Ceremony
Tammy Dyer
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Dear Friends,
Tuesday evening, January 9th, all are invited to attend the annual Precepts and Refuges Ceremony. It is the time each year when IMFW gathers to participate in reaffirming our commitment to wise and ethical living.
The New Year often brings fresh intention and resolution. However, the goals we set for the year are often difficult to reach and we end up feeling needless guilt and shame. The Buddhist teachings offer another way to look at intention and aspiration, to see it more as a practice rather than some goal to attain.
The Precepts Ceremony held each year at IMFW, and daily or weekly in monasteries, reminds us of the foundation of our moral and ethical conduct practice. The five precepts provide us with an orientation that can help spark virtuous activity in our everyday life.
Virtue can have a heavily moralistic or religious overtone, but Buddhist practice views ethical conduct as our determination to develop the wisdom to clearly see how the world works and the compassion to always hold the welfare of others in mind.
The precepts are guidelines, not rules to make us feel guilt or shame. They are ways to help raise our level of awareness to what is going on at this moment in our life. Holding the precepts leads to happiness when practiced. They are a basic structure that can form our life path to Do No Harm.
The Precepts ceremony on January 9th, invites those present to undertake the five basic precepts to not harm others through our speech and actions. The precepts are:
- I undertake to refrain from killing and harming living beings.
- I undertake to refrain from stealing and taking that which is not mine.
- I undertake to refrain from causing harm through sexual misconduct.
- I undertake to refrain from false speech, harmful speech, gossip, and slander.
- I undertake to refrain from the misuse of intoxicants or substances such as alcohol or drugs that cause carelessness or loss of awareness.
The positive power of virtue is enormous. When we don’t live by these precepts, it is said we live like wild beasts; without them, all other spiritual practice is a sham. Imagine trying to sit down to meditate after a day of lying and stealing. Then imagine what a different world this would be if everyone kept even one precept-not to kill, not to lie, not to steal. We would truly create a new world order. (Jack Kornfield, A Path with Heart)
If our intention for being human is to be happy, then practicing the five precepts will help to bring that about.
Preceding the precepts ceremony, we will chant the three refuges. This will be a call and response chanting of taking refuge in the Buddha, the Dhamma and the Sangha. The following is a brief description of each refuge.
- I go to the Buddha for refuge. When we take refuge in the Buddha, it is not taking refuge in the man who was called Buddha as a god or energy source but refuge in the “awakened,” knowing faculty of all hearts and minds. Following his enlightenment, the Buddha was asked by those he met along the road, “Who are you?” He answered, “I am awake.” We make a commitment to mindfulness, to awaken. We make a commitment to our knowing what is true in the present moment. When we take refuge in the Buddha, we are acknowledging confidence in the practice of wakefulness.
- I go to the Dhamma for refuge. When we take refuge in the Dhamma, it is more than the words that were spoken by Buddha. We take refuge in truth, the way it is here and now. When we take refuge in the Dhamma, we are surrendering to the impermanent, selfless, nature and unsatisfactoriness of life, not our belief of how life should be if we could control it. We have confidence that “letting go” of beliefs and opinions can lead to happiness. We have awareness that trying to “hold on” to things causes suffering. We have faith in the natural law of experience—that all causes have effects. We open to the truth, to the way life actually is; the orderliness of the truth of nature itself and how it functions. There is no refuge in the conditioned reality of greed, hatred and delusion. The world our mind creates and that we cling to is illusory and causes suffering. Therefore, we take refuge in the here and now.
- I go to the Sangha for refuge. We have faith and commitment to those who are practicing to awaken to the truth. It is you and I, those of us who recognize this as a path to Truth. It is individuals and groups committed to recognizing the truth in the now. We place confidence in this group that is practicing together and supporting each other in our practice. In the Sangha we have faith that letting go of self-centered views and self-concern is necessary and that this leads to a noble, unselfish response to life.
When the awakened heart knows the way things truly are, what springs forth is harmonious and virtuous action.
With lovingkindness,
Tammy
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We wish you a peaceful and joyful New Year. May you meet with spiritual success.
If you are interested in a way to begin 2024 with meaningful intention, Drew is leading a Precepts Ceremony, Tuesday, January 9th. Join us at our normally scheduled Tuesday night time of 6 pm. It is a wonderful way to remind us of our intention as we practice and lead our lives.
A potluck immediately follows the ceremony. Please bring a dish to share and enjoy an evening with friends.
Day-long retreats will be offered January 16, 17, 18, 19 and 20th. Please take advantage of this wonderful opportunity to practice and experience the benefits of day-long practice. Pam and John Steinbach will be teaching. You may join for one day, some days or all! John and Pam also welcome people who feel they can only sit for half of the day, but they ask that you join in the morning from 9 am until noon. You can sign up here on our website.
An Introduction to Buddhism Course is being offered every Monday evening during the month of February. This course encourages discussion and exploration, and helps in understanding some of the different Buddhist traditions – Click here to go to our website to sign up.
Whatever You Intend
Whatever you intend, whatever you plan, and whatever you have a tendency toward, that will become the basis on which your mind is established. (SN 12.40) Develop meditation on equanimity, for when you develop meditation on equanimity, all aversion is abandoned. (MN 62)
The characteristic of equanimity is promoting objectivity toward beings. (Vm 9.93) Having seen a form with the eye, one is neither glad-minded nor sad-minded but abides with equanimity, mindful and fully aware. (AN 6.1)
Equanimity is the quality of mind in which we are neither drawn toward something that is enticing nor pushed away from what is repellent. Like a plate balanced on a stick, the mind does not tilt forward or backward but remains poised in the middle. We can still act from this state, and in fact our actions tend to be more balanced when we are grounded in the equipoise of equanimity rather than carried off by passion for or against something.
Equanimity is cultivated with the practice of mindfulness. Being aware non-judgmentally means being aware of an object of experience without the mind being biased in favor of it or against it, without favoring or opposing what it is or what is happening. Practice bringing an attitude of "this is simply what is happening now" toward whatever occurs, instead of "I like [or don’t like] this," or "I approve [or don't approve] of this."
by Andrew Olenski
The Board of Directors for IMFW
Tammy Dyer, Founder and Guiding Teacher
Deb O’Kelly, President
Pam Steinbach, Secretary and Teacher
Alexandra Belyaeva, Treasurer
Drew Consalvo, Teacher
Nancy Tompkins
Luke Bassett
Josh Smith
Monica Cardenas
Dora Rogers
Our mission is to provide for the study and practice of Insight (Vipassanā) Meditation according to the Theravāda Buddhist religious tradition and to support and encourage the development of community based upon Buddhist ideals, teachings and practices.
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“What is it you plan to do with this one wild and precious life?” -Mary Oliver
Open Retreat Offered January 16, 17, 18, 19, and 20th – 2024
An Open Retreat will be available at IMFW (in person only) led by John and Pamela Steinbach on January 16 – 20th, Tuesday, through Saturday. You are welcome to come for half a day or full days, all or any combination on any of these dates. Please bring a journal or paper to briefly note insights and questions, and a lunch if staying for the full day. The retreats are offered on a Dana basis, the practice of generosity: giving what you are able, out of gratitude, for IMFW and the teachers.
Almost all schools of Buddhism include meditation practices to directly experience the workings of the mind. Retreats are an opportunity to devote a period of quiet focus committed to introspective awareness and mindful attention. If you decide you want to bring serious Buddhist practice into your life, two things seem necessary; a daily practice of meditation and periods of more prolonged practice to gain deeper insights into the workings of the mind. In the midst of our busy lives of gaining insights and performing outer responsibilities, a half day or full day or a short stretch of days is an opportunity to examine what this life is. IMFW is pleased to be able to offer some intensive opportunities for inquiry. This doesn’t mean that study of the dharma, listening to talks, and being a member of a sangha without a meditation practice is not valuable; they can all be of benefit to generate generosity, virtue, patience, meditation, and wisdom. Occasional retreats offer deeper pondering of the teachings, observing the nature of mind, and reflecting on the activities of body, speech and mind. Interspersed with periods of 30 minute seated meditation, these retreats include walking meditation, teachings, discussion, and yoga.
Click here to sign up for any retreat/day that you are interested in.
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An Introduction to Buddhism
Pam and John Steinbach
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An Introduction to Buddhism will be offered this February at IMFW, taught by IMFW teachers Pam and John Steinbach. Class will meet on the four consecutive Monday evenings in February at IMFW (in person only). The intent is for all who participate to have a better understanding of Buddhism and gain some insight into how these teachings apply to daily life. John and Pam look forward to seeing where the discussions take us and are planning to allow plenty of time for conversation.
The class will address the Four Noble Truths including the Noble Eightfold Path, the Three Marks of Existence, lists of the virtuous qualities, the Hindrances, and the different schools of Buddhism. Introductory classes will be offered quarterly at IMFW with this class alternating with the Introduction to Insight Meditation taught by Tammy Dyer and Barb Lahman in the spring and Drew Consalvo in the fall.
Classes will be held from 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm on Mondays, February 5, 12, 19 and 26. The classes are freely given. Dana (donation of generosity as you are able) is welcome and encouraged. Click here to sign up.
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Self-Compassion for Caregivers 6-week Course
Jon Walker
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IMFW teacher, Tammy Dyer recommends this course offered by Sondra Gudmundson and Jon Walker. If interested you will need to go to their website to register.
Sondra Gudmundson and Jon Walker will be offering this course starting on Sunday, January 28 at 4:30 pm Eastern Time. Each session lasts an hour, and we'll stay for an additional 15 minutes to discuss questions. If you know you want to register, you can do so at this link. For more info about the course, read on.
This course is designed for anyone that finds themselves in a stressful caregiving situation--whether it involves loved-ones, clients, patients or any of the myriad ways we are called on to care for other beings. Most people can sympathize with the hardships faced by those who have mental or physical difficulties, but often people don’t realize the stresses placed on the caregivers who are tasked with supporting them, yet also have to attend to their own needs and obligations. The caregiving experience is made more difficult because most of us tend to be very hard on ourselves--we judge and criticize ourselves when we most need to be supported in our caregiving efforts.
Mindful Self-Compassion is a research-proven course that can help us include ourselves in our own circle of caring. We can become our own best friend and supporter in a way that has been shown to enhance well-being and lessen anxiety and stress. In particular, self-compassion can help protect caregivers from burnout and compassion fatigue and increase satisfaction with one's caregiving role.
This course is a research-proven shorter version of the longer 8-week Mindful Self-Compassion course. It will meet weekly for 6 weeks, with each session lasting an hour, although there will be an after session “café” where people can stay and discuss the topics in more detail.
Here is a breakdown of each session:
Session 1: Exploring what self-compassion is and seeing how it does or does not show up for us, and then looking at ways to cultivate both mindfulness and self-compassion.
Session 2: Seeing why self-compassion is hard to come by in our culture, and then exploring more compassion practices as well as useful in-the-moment mindfulness practices.
Session 3: Looking at ways to work with the inner critic and to find our inner compassionate voice.
Session 4: Using self-compassion to work with difficult emotions.
Session 5: Investigating caregiver fatigue and burnout, and how self-compassion can remind us to offer care to ourselves as we attend to the needs of others.
Session 6: Exploring the importance of our core values for cultivating resilience and fulfillment, and how self-compassion can help us live more in alignment with those values. We will also look at the resources available to maintain a self-compassion practice.
This course also includes small and large group discussions since there is so much to learn from each other. Most people are surprised at how much we all have in common when it comes to needing self-compassion, especially in the realm of caregiving.
This course is freely offered, although donations are welcome. You can sign up even if you aren't sure you can make all the sessions; you will receive handouts and links to what we cover, and you can drop in on the sessions that you are most interested in. We do suggest you try to at least make it to the first session, which serves as a nice introduction to the concept of self-compassion along with some foundational practices to cultivate it. For confidentiality, these sessions are not recorded.
Click here to go to Jon Walker’s website where you can register for this course.
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