Dear Friends of the Dhamma,
One of the many experiences I'm having this last month is shame, a bone-deep embarrassment, of what has been unspoken and thus unaddressed by white people for so long. By me, and in our life together....
Writer Eula Biss, who has been examining the experience of whiteness for years, names its "unexamined quality as primary ground of its privilege: an ability to move through life without thinking about what your race means to other people, and what your existence in a community means to the people around you."
Since George Floyd's murder, I have been having many in-depth discussions with family and friends about the most meaningful actions we might take to help educate ourselves and use our Buddhist practice to best support the dismantling of racism.
Inspired and informed by Buddhist teachings on compassion, ethics, right effort, and right understanding, I believe we are called to critically reflect and to feel the tremble of our hearts right now. I believe each of us is called to act, each in our own way, to contribute to a vision of an inclusive, equitable, and diverse community.
Buddhist traditions suggest that the conditions of our actions of body, speech, and mind are often hidden, even from ourselves, and Buddhist practices can support us in looking at our own shortcomings, and to bear witness to the wounds of our world. Inspired by Thich Nhat Hanh, "we are determined not to avoid or close our eyes before suffering."
A recent interview by Jill Suttie with Rhonda Magee, MBSR teacher and law professor at the University of San Francisco was helpful for me to better understand how I might work with my discomfort and pain around racism in a skillful and wholesome way.
Interview excerpt: -by Jill Suttie, syndicated from Greater Good, Jun 10, 2020
"Mindfulness meditation may hold the key to grappling with interpersonal racism, because it helps people tolerate the discomfort that comes with deeper discussions about race. And it can help cultivate a sense of belonging and community for those who experience and fight racism in our everyday lives.
Racism and other forms of bias are pervasive in our culture. So, most of us have inherited ways of thinking about ourselves and others that are fairly reductionist—notions of race, gender, and other things that give us a limited sense of who we are. We can all see the harm that this causes, the polarization and identity-based violence in our time.
...I think we're called to challenge not only these behaviors, but the reductionist thinking that contributes to them, but we can't do it without creating some spaciousness in ourselves to understand how we hold these ideas in our own brain, body, and experience. Because cultural trainings and conditionings run so deep, we need to meet the challenges of un-training ourselves with a similar level of depth.
...The historical Buddha dealt with many of the challenging social realities of his time—for example, allowing women into the order of practice in ways that other religious or other wisdom traditions at the time didn't. He specifically countered and addressed the caste system in his time; he worked with kings and others in power to influence the way they exercised power in the direction of minimizing harm."
As a spiritual community, may we work within ourselves and between ourselves to change the systems that we are living in.
May we see the inner dimension to racial justice, even while we work to change cultural systems around us.
With love and compassion,
Tammy, Founding and Guiding Teacher
260.341.4121
tamaradyer6@gmail.com
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