Dear Friends,
Once again, most of us have had an unusual year that has been quite challenging. We’ve been aware of the changing and impermanent nature of just about everything that we’ve considered normal, and so much of what we’ve taken for granted.
The truth is that it has always been this way and always will be. There’s never been anything that we can depend on to last forever, to remain the same, or to even remain at all. But we haven’t been called to notice this quite so clearly and intimately on a personal nor world-wide scale until these last few years.
It’s through our own direct experience, via our meditation practice, that we truly learn that all sentient beings are totally interdependent, albeit temporary manifestations of life.
As awakening beings, we acknowledge that this temporariness can be hard to accept, at least at first. That what often appears to be difficult, we slowly begin to trust this constant change, this transformation towards a greater truth.
As we enter into this ‘new year’, we can practice sitting still, mindful of breath, allowing relaxation and clarity to arise. We might mindfully notice that no two breaths are alike. We notice that the breath gets more and more subtle, or more coarse. Oftentimes, as we sit, the breaths become soft and light as we relax. We notice that a lightness of being and a quiet joy begin to show up.
We’re doing nothing to make this sense of joy and tranquility arise. Experiencing centeredness and a balance of heart and mind, we might recognize and learn to be present within the body, the breath and the heart/mind, as it all keeps changing.
We can resolve to begin each day by sitting and cultivating gratitude for change. With an affirmation toward a wholesome relationship to change and impermanence, we allow things to arise and fall away. We learn to open our heart/mind towards being grateful for whatever shows up.
BREATH…”much gratitude for breath.” SENSATIONS IN THE FEET…”gratitude for feet.” HEARING BIRD SONG and WIND…”gratitude for hearing, for birds, for air”. THOUGHTS OF MY SON OR DAUGHTER…”deep gratitude for my son or daughter”. INTERNAL and EXTERNAL DIFFICULTIES…Can we be grateful for difficulties? Difficult internal and external experiences can be some of our most insightful teachers. MORNING SUNSHINE...”gratitude”.
On and on it goes, without any clinging…JUST GRATITUDE!
A heart filled with gratitude allows for wholesome heart qualities to blossom and flourish. Patience, generosity, compassion, loving-kindness, clarity, equanimity and a deep sense of interconnectedness naturally arise. As we begin to know the world as it truly is, we are more and more able to respond to the inner and outer world…rather than reacting to what shows up.
May this ‘new year’ be filled with gratitude, understanding, ease, friendship, love and a deepening sense of well-being for each of you and for all beings everywhere.
With love and gratitude,
Tammy
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